Sibling Shots During Your In-Home Newborn Session: What Duluth Moms Need to Know

Let’s be honest—sibling shots during a newborn session can feel a little unpredictable. You’ve got a brand new baby, a toddler who’s suddenly been promoted to Big Brother or Sister, and a whole lot of feelings in the room. But here’s the truth I want you to hear loud and clear:

It doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.

Real Moments > Perfect Poses

As a mama myself (and someone who’s photographed plenty of wild toddler energy like in this session where I share my secrets for photographing toddlers), I fully expect the wiggles, the snack breaks, the “no, I don’t want to!” moments. And I welcome them.

What I’m looking for isn’t a perfect smile—it’s connection:

• A quick forehead kiss

• The way their little hand rests on baby’s blanket

• That fleeting glance full of curiosity

• Even the pouty lip (yes, really—it’s part of their story!)

These are the kinds of moments I cherish in every in-home newborn session

How I Help Things Flow

Here’s what you can expect during your session:

• I never force it. If your older child isn’t feeling it, we pivot.

• We start with siblings early—they’re usually more open when fresh and not “over it.”

• Play-based prompts: peek-a-boo, snuggling under a blanket, or “helping” check on baby’s toes.

• Short and sweet—most sibling photos happen in the first 15–20 minutes, because that’s the window we’ve got!

Preparing Big Siblings

A few gentle ways to help your older child feel included and loved:

• Talk about the session ahead of time—how much fun we’re going to have!

• Let them help pick their outfit—giving toddlers a little control goes a long way.

• Keep expectations low. Some siblings want to snuggle close; others want to run circles around the living room. Both are okay.

• Snacks. Bribes. Favorite toys. No judgment here. Let’s set them up for success.

Want more ideas? Here’s how to prepare your toddler for a photoshoot.

A Safe Place for Your Family’s Real Story

If you’re booking a newborn session with me, know this:
I’m not here for stiff poses or fake smiles. I’m here to gently guide you into good light, find the beauty in the chaos, and capture the love that lives in the in-between.

You’ll walk away with more than just sibling photos—you’ll have a story to remember:

• How gently your toddler touched baby’s head (or didn’t!)

• The joy, the overwhelm, the wild and sacred beauty of becoming a family of four (or five or six…)

Want to book your in-home newborn session?

I photograph newborns and families all over Duluth, Hibbing, the Iron Range, and Grand Rapids—and I’d be honored to capture this sweet season for your family.

Book your session here!
Let’s keep it real. And beautiful.

With Love, Brooke